Everyone's That Girl

The ‘That Girl’ Trend

The 'that girl' viral trend has taken social media by storm, with the premise of inspiring and motivating others. From TikTok videos to Instagram posts, everyone seems to want to be 'that girl.’ But who is ‘that girl’?

'That girl' is often portrayed as someone who is confident, stylish, and effortlessly cool. She seems to have it all together and is always on top of her game. You've probably seen it all over your feed - lifestyle content accompanied by empowering captions like “become that girl” or “that girl knows her worth”. And the trend has really blown up, with tons of social media users jumping on the bandwagon with hashtags like #thatgirl and #thatgirltrend.

But here's the thing - as much as I love the concept of 'that girl', I couldn’t find a version of her that I could really relate to or see myself in. And it turns out, I’m not alone in that. A quick Google search revealed that many other people feel the same way.

Unrealistic Expectations?

We found that the trend often presents an idealised and highly curated version of oneself that may not be representative of reality. Many of the images and messages associated with the trend feature people who appear to be confident, successful and happy which can create an unrealistic standard for others to compare themselves to.

Additionally, the trend may perpetuate the idea that one’s self-worth is tied to their social status, adding pressure to look a certain way or conform to certain images or standards. This can especially be damaging for those who may not fit the narrow definition of “that girl”. It’s important to remember that social media is often a highlight, and that what is portrayed online may not always reflect reality.

It’s clear that the trend can be both realistic and unrealistic, depending on how it’s interpreted by individuals. On one hand, promoting self-confidence, self-love and positivity is always a good thing and can be a helpful way for individuals to boost their mental and emotional well-being. After all, feeling empowered and believing in oneself is an important part of personal growth and development!

However, for the benefits of the trend to be reaped, it’s essential we steer it towards diversion, inclusivity and empowerment for everyone - regardless of age, gender, appearance, background or social status.

Everyone's That Girl

We believe that everyone is beautifully unique, everyone has their own goals, everyone has their individual struggles and therefore, everyone’s definition of being ‘that girl’ is their own. Instead of another unrealistic standard for women to live up to, we believe that Everyone’s That Girl.

Sure, there are days when I manage to embody the hype of being ‘that girl’ - waking up super early, making myself an aesthetic smoothie, working out in a matching fit and hair tied up slick. But other days are simply not like that at all - and you know what? That is perfectly ok.

As long as I wake up with the intention of how I want to spend my day, I am still working towards my personal definition of what it means to be that girl. It’s not that the trend had bad principles, it’s the prescriptiveness with which they are delivered that is the problem.

Being ‘that girl’ should ultimately be about becoming the best version of yourself. It’s about how you feel, not how your life looks in comparison to others on social media. We believe that everyone can be their own version of ‘that girl’ - and it’s up to you to define what that means to you!

Everybody has off days, not everything can be super aesthetic and things don’t always go to plan. Setting goals and maintaining habits are just as important as spontaneous plans and allowing yourself to have bad days. You are the author of your own 'that girl' story.

Everyone can be that girl and it all starts with a plan. Our 'Everyone's That Girl' Digital daily planner provides you with everything you need to become your own version of ‘that girl’. 

We've got you covered in every aspect of your life - from gratitude and self care journals to weekly planners, fitness journals, budget trackers, manifestation diaries and more - each designed to help you be the best version of yourself. 

But here's the thing: our collection isn't just about aesthetics. We're also all about providing functional tools that empower you to reach your goals without the pressure of comparing your progress to others. We believe in making our product accessible to everyone, which is why they are not only affordable but also available for instant download, so anyone with an internet connection can start their journey right away.

We believe that everyone is that girl and we’re dedicated to building an online community that embraces unique qualities over conforming to specific images and trends. So, take a look at our range of planners - both digital and physical - and discover how they can help you become your own version of 'that girl'. We also have some freebies available to help get you started!

If you have any questions or need additional support, don't hesitate to get in touch - we’re always happy to help! x